Communication can be the key to a better sex life. At least, if you ask the French. In fact, more than 4 out of 5 think that being able to talk openly and honestly with their partner about sex, desires and fantasies is important for a good sex life. However, only 6 out of 10 Frenchmen find it easy to talk about sex with our partners. Nevertheless, we are – by a significant percentage – the best at doing so in all of the countries covered by the Sindex.
If we look closer at relationships in France, there is a clear link between our ability to talk about sex and how satisfied we are with our sex lives. 9 out of 10 Frenchmen, who are in a relationship, where they are good at talking about sex, say that they are satisfied with their sex lives. This, on the other hand, only goes for a little more than 3 in 10 of the French, who say they aren’t good at communicating with their partner about sex.
There is, as such, good reason to work on the communication in your relationship. Yet every other Frenchman still dreams of becoming better at talking about sex, desires, and fantasies with their partner. Then why don’t we? If you ask the French, the answer is clear: The time is never quite right, we are worried about how our partner will react, and it’s awkward.
We see that talking openly and honestly about sex and relationships in the home, where we grow up, can make a difference later in life. Frenchmen, who have talked openly about sex and relationships in the home they grew up in, are notably better at talking about sex with their partner today than those who grew up in homes, where sex and relationships weren’t talked openly about.